Normalizing Elder Couple Joint Suicides
By Wesley J. SmithPeople keep pretending that assisted suicide/euthanasia are about terminal illness. That’s a clear ploy to get people to accept the premise that killing is an acceptable answer to human suffering.
After that, logic will take over. Once a population begins to accept the overarching premise, the limitations such as terminal illness melt away.
Sometimes, it doesn’t even have to wait that long. In Belgium, elderly married couples can receive joint euthanasia–even if one or both isn’t seriously ill.
And now, in Australia, a healthy elderly couple is praised in a journal called Starts at Sixty! for committing joint assisted suicide before becoming ill. From, “Why This Couple Chose to Leave the World on Their Own Terms”
Peter and Pat were scientists,
explorers, parents, and jokesters. They had devoted their lives to their
passions and raised three daughters – Judy, Anny and Kate. They lived
life to the full and were determined to avoid the illness and fragility
that so often comes with old age.
Both Peter and Pat had discussed
their choice to take their own lives for many years. They decided long
ago this was the way they wanted to go and they made sure their
daughters understood their decision. To them, prolonging life for the
sake of living was not enough. They enjoyed hiking and reading and
debating each other on science, literature and arts.
They did not want to live a life
where all of these things were not possible. The idea of nursing homes
and palliative care was not something they wished to consider. They
would die with the sharp minds and good humour they had cherished their
whole lives.
They decided to commit suicide before becoming ill or debilitated by
age–with the information on how to get dead provided by the Down-Under
Kevorkian, Philip Nitschke:
Peter joined Nitschke’s
organisation Exit International, which teaches people peaceful methods
to end their own lives, and was a strong advocate for the right choose
how and when to pass on. On 21 October, a week before Peter and Pat
passed, their daughters arrived at the family home to spend time with
their parents before they had to say goodbye forever.
Their three girls are similar to
their parents. Two have PhDs and one is a concert pianist in Germany.
They are rational, just like their parents, and understand their desire
to go out on their own terms.
Anny asked if they could wait
until after Christmas, just to have one more family celebration
together, but they would not. The date had been set and they would make
their final exit the day after Pat’s 87th birthday.
Speaking about her parents’
decision to take their own lives, the couples’ youngest daughter Kate
said she believes, like her parents, that people should be afforded the
right to suicide if they are of sound mind.
“It shouldn’t be so difficult for
rational people to make this decision,” Kate said. “Obviously, care has
to be taken but assisted suicide should not be illegal.”
We used to consider such joint suicides a preventable tragedy. Increasingly, they are a cause for celebration, as elder suicide is beginning to be normalized and extolled.
Mark my words, if trends continue, you will be asked to attend the suicide of a loved one.
If that happens, what will you do? Say yes, and you are morally complicit. Say no, and you risk being ostracized by the family as “judgmental” and “moralistic.”
People have not even begun to grasp the radical changes assisted suicide brings to a society.
Editor’s note. This appeared on Wesley’s great blog.
Source: NRLC News
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