‘To be pro-life is to be pro-child’: Couple who adopted six now open adoption agency
The first one was Zoe. Properly named Savannah Zoe, which means “from a barren field, LIFE!” Zoe was the first life Randy and Kelsey rescued.
It was 2006, just one year after the Bohlender family had spent a year of their lives in Washington, D.C. crying out in prayer at the Supreme Court for the ending of abortion.
The next year they began the journey of being the answer to their own prayers, a journey that has not stopped.
Now, the Bohlenders have six adopted children, and just this week, they launched Zoe’s House Adoption Agency, to help others be the answers to their own prayers, as well. Their journey went from praying in Washington, D.C. one year to Las Vegas the next, where Zoe entered their lives.
It was a Tuesday when Randy received a phone call from Las Vegas telling him Zoe, who wasn’t theirs yet, had been born. The social worker said she was “half African American, half Hispanic, with a gorgeous head of hair.” That day set a whirlwind in motion.
“To be pro-life is to be pro-child,” both of them will tell you. It sounds like a nice tagline for an adoption promo, but for the Bohlenders, it’s their life. Period. When Zoe came along, their proverbial rubber met the road – and they drove. In his book, The Spirit of Adoption, Randy narrates the urgency:
And so Savannah Zoe was born to the Bohlenders in 2006. And then in 2008, things shifted more. Randy says:My head spun as I sat down on the corner of our bed. I was almost afraid to get excited. Had my daughter been born halfway across the country? I knew it was customary for birth moms to choose from a number of prospective families. “How many portfolios are you presenting to the birth mother?” I asked. “Just yours. She’s here in the hospital. Sir, if you want her, come and get her.” Other than Kelsey saying “Yes” when I married her, I’m not sure when any other words have had such an emotional effect on me. It was as if I was getting thumped in the chest. “If you want her, come and get her.”
In 2008, we felt the Lord encourage us to get a home study done “just in case….” something happened and we needed to be able to adopt. It was completed on a Wednesday night. Thursday morning at [a] 6 a.m. prayer meeting I received a comment on my blog that said, in essence, “My sister in law had twins and we’re looking for a Christian family to adopt them….” By 7 a.m. I’d made phone contact with the birth mother’s family and then had four or five phone conversations with her. At 2 p.m., she said “I think if I met you I could make a decision.” We raced to the airport, and by 8 a.m. Friday morning we were in her hospital room. We left the hospital that day (Friday) with Anna and Mercy.Three years later, I received a call from her family again – she was pregnant with twins again. By this time, we had grown fairly close with them and felt comfortable talking openly. We knew she would not be able to parent them, and offered to adopt if it would be acceptable to her and them. It was, and we were in Florida for the births of Creed and Cadence.
Zoe, along with Anna River and her identical twin Mercy Rain, born
in 2008, got another sister in 2009 when Kelsey and Randy had a
biological child, their third girl, Piper Eden Key. Creed Elijah and
Cadence Eliyana came along in 2012.
And another little one was waiting for his home this year. Randy explains:
With this boy, especially, they had to fight against a state system that might send him indefinitely to foster care. The Bohlenders fought to raise money fast for what was turning out to be an exceedingly expensive adoption. They fought because they had four of his siblings in their home already; most of all they fought because there was a baby who needed a family. And so, with a lot of red tape to cut, Scout Caleb Justice came home, making the family what is now a social media hashtag: #bohlenderXAnother three years later, [the same birth mother] had a baby boy. Her family was unaware she was expecting, and the state was involved more closely this time.
Randy wrote recently:
And Randy and Kelsey knew their answer had to be yes, at least as far as they were able. Even as they brought home Scout, they were in the midst of launching a new adoption agency.Our adoptions were not simple in their origins. In fact, they got more complicated as time went on. Even so, I remember why we started. In 2005, in front of the U.S. Supreme Court, an abortion rights advocate yelled in our face.“What will you do if you win? Are you going to take all the babies?“
Zoe’s House Adoptions received its license just last week. The signage is up, the Facebook page and website are live, and the road LIFE is tucked away on a street in Kansas on the Kansas and Missouri border – just across the interstate from Planned Parenthood. The physical location serves as a visual for women, a reminder that the real solution to an unplanned pregnancy is often just across the road.
Zoe’s House, Randy says, “was founded to provide top-notch care of expectant mothers and quality services to adoptive parents at a lower cost than other agencies.”
Because adoption can be expensive with lawyers’ fees, social workers’ fees, and other necessary services, the Bohlenders seek to help make the process more affordable for families to bring home their child. Randy says, “we do that by partnering financially with like-minded, pro-life people who understand that to be pro life is to be pro-child.”
And at the end of the day, that’s what the Bohlenders’ pro-life lives are about: pro-child. There are six children in their home who know that better than anyone.
Randy and Kelsey are committed to helping others adopt and find resources. You may contact them at www.randybohlender.com.
Source:LiveAction News
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