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My girlfriend didn’t want to disappoint her parents, so she didn’t tell them she aborted my child

By Sarah Terzo
When a bill requiring minors getting abortions to inform their parents was being considered, a blogger posted some stories from teenagers speaking out either in favor or against the bill. This young man was the father of an aborted baby. He argues against the bill, believing minors should not have to tell their parents:

“My girlfriend Jenay had an abortion and the baby was mine. I met her at John Muir Middle School in Oakland. We were both 14. She was 15 when she had an abortion….

“She had the abortion because she didn’t want her father to hate her. She didn’t actually know if he really would have hated her, but they had some talks in the past and he told her she should wait to have sex and that he would be disappointed if she got pregnant…..

After she had the abortion I felt really bad and relieved at the same time. I felt bad because we killed my son or daughter. I was relieved because I didn’t have to go through the drama that might have occurred with my family and I if they found out.” [1]

He seems to realize that a baby died in the abortion, his own son or daughter. He doesn’t seem to care very much however. But when pro-lifers say that teenagers should get the consent of their parents or at least have to notify them before they get an abortion, pro-choicers insist that teens already tell their parents that the only teens who don’t are those in abusive families.

This girl didn’t involve her parents in the decision because she was afraid they would be disappointed with her–not because they were abusive; they do not threaten her, they were nonviolent. She could’ve gone to her parents, and this may have had a different outcome if she had. At the very least, she would not have had to go through a major surgical procedure alone at 15, and been forced to handle any possible aftereffects or complications in secret.
It is hard to understand how this is in the best interests of minors.

[1] “Post-abortive teens on Proposition 73” JivinJeoshaphat, Wednesday, November 09, 2005.
Editor’s note. This appeared at ClinicQuotes.  Sarah Terzo is a pro-life author whose twitter account is https://twitter.com/PLClinicquotes. She is also creator of the clinicquotes.com website and the clinicquotes tumblr. She is a member of Secular Pro-Life and PLAGAL

Source: NRLC News